LIVE WITH INTENTION
& BE YOUR TRUE SELF
"“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.” Dr Seuss
Does it feel like everyone keeps telling you that you've got what it takes to succeed, but the only person who can’t see your own greatness is you? If this resonates then read on...
I spent the first 30 years of my life trying to do everything right to please others and fit in.
The result was that I didn’t know who I really was and what I wanted in life.
I was hiding my true intentions for fear of making a mistake or upsetting others and my authentic self was suffocated by the need to not rock the boat.
Then I became aware of why this was happening...
I realised that I had a belief that if something about me would offend someone else then I should change it.
I also believed that if something I might do or say could upset someone else then I should not do or say that.
These faulty beliefs were running my life and they stopped me from being myself and knowing what I wanted. It meant that other people’s opinions were more important than mine and it meant I couldn’t be my real self.
As a result I felt powerless and as if there was something wrong with me.
Hiding myself and my intentions lead to me feeling shame about who I was and I was constantly terrified of making a mistake or getting things wrong because then I would be exposed as being wrong.
My perfect game plan was to try and do everything perfectly and not upset anyone because if I did that then I believed people wouldn't find out that I was 'bad'.
This distorted view of the world and of myself lead to a life filled with anxiety, frustration and low self worth.
The moment I learned this was how I was thinking I went on a mission to find out how I could change it and I'm eternally grateful that I did. When I changed these disempowering beliefs I began to speak my truth, show my real self to others and finally see my worth as an imperfect human being.
My whole world changed, I finally loved myself just how I was and I had the freedom to be me, it felt AMAZING.
Not having to hide meant I could be me and meet people that loved me with all my flaws. I quickly met and married the woman of my dreams and started a family.
I changed career and set up my own business because I knew what my intentions were, I discovered my purpose and what I really wanted, free from the opinions of others.
It's now my life mission to help others to do the same by changing their false perceptions and guiding them to become their confident and authentic selves.
How can I help you?
"When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change" - Wayne Dyer.
When you go to the opticians they change your physical lens so that you can see the world more clearly. Through the power of deep coaching we talk and this changes your inner lens so that you can experience the world with greater clarity and confidence.
When you take those insights out into the world and put them into action your whole world will change.
I help open minded people to shift their focus so that they can have the confidence to love who they are and live life with intention.
If you're open to changing your thinking and taking more action then book a call and let's have a conversation.
My clients have come from a range of industries, including TV show hosts, sports stars, successful business owners, therapists, life coaches, football coaches, freelancers and some of the worlds best poker players.
I help people to face their fears, take action and become the most powerful version of themselves.
By changing your perceptions you can begin to shift from fear to courage, from anxiety to excitement and start to tap into the true greatness that lies within you to reach your full potential.
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